缘起之时,即缘落之始。
在打扫房间时发现这段句子。 wow this was written behind a shoebox cover for my nick nack from my 中学 stuff. I dun even remember this, yes, i did wrote this :) that time was still a very young boy. Translated simply means "The begining of a relationship signals the start of the ending". Not sure what hit me when this phase was conjured, but after these years, i can be very sure that i am wrong.
When a relationship starts, both party must pull together and keep it going. It is like a clap, in which, two hands are needed. Effort has to be put in by both party. It is about give and take, getting used to the querks that one another has. of course if when the hands hurt, the clap has to stop. but one must asks if one hand used a little less force, the hurting will reduce and the clap can go on.
How easy the logic and physic is, but how tough it is to execute. Tough it may be, but this is the way to keeps things going on. I am very lucky, I have my supportive other hand, giving me a push when i am down. Slap on my blinker when i am distracted. A pat on the shoulder when i am doing right. Of course she has her querks, and they do get on my nerves. But she is the one and only. Me showing off, yeah maybe a bit. I just think i am very lucky :)
May all who are two stay a pair,
And those who are one, no longer will be.